Swallow your pride and put aside any embarrassment you may feel
It is extremely hard to look in the mirror and say to yourself, “I’m in
financial trouble.” If you’ve admitted to yourself that you are in
financial trouble, you may be apprehensive about asking for help.
Overcoming the stigma that goes along with being in financial trouble can be
overwhelming. However, what would be more painful? Drowning in debt
and the stress it causes or the admission that you are in trouble and taking
the first step towards financial health? Perhaps the following quote might
help:
“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the
pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs
tons”. –Jim Rohn
Take the first step, become
disciplined.
If you need more help, read Dave Ramsey's book,
"The Total Money Makeover". This book is very inspiring and
informative and his "Baby Steps" are mirrored here.
Stop incurring new debt and start to live more frugally
Stop incurring new debt. You will never be able to get ahead
financially unless you get rid of your credit cards.
There are many things you can do to begin to live more frugally. The
first is to develop a budget and live by it. However, living by a budget
doesn’t mean filling in the vacation category first, or padding the eating out
category. It means prioritizing your needs; allocating the money you earn before you spend it.
When Andrea and I decided to get out of debt and live on a budget we had no
clue where to start. How much DO I spend on gas a month? How much
DO we spend on groceries? How much DO we spend on entertainment? How much SHOULD we be spending? To answer these questions, we decided to
continue doing what we were doing but to get a receipt for every purchase!
We put each receipt into a huge envelope. At our first budget meeting, we sat
down at our kitchen table and went through each and every single receipt and
categorized each purchase. We figured out that we spent $250 a month on
gas, $400 dollars a month on groceries, $300 a month on entertainment and that
we were “leaking” over $500 a month (meaning we had no clue where that money
was going).
The budget fixed everything! We knew where each red cent was
going. We were able to find money, to start paying down our incredible
debt load and to save quite a bit of money for our first son’s arrival.
The first budget is always the hardest. The second is a little easier
and by the third month you’ll be getting a hang of what expenses you’ll have
coming that month and how to allocate money appropriately.
To help make sure we weren’t spending the utilities money on entertainment or
mortgage money on groceries I did something my family found rather
ridiculous. I set up savings accounts
for all major categories (Utilities, Insurance, Christmas Savings,
Transportation, Medical, Housing Projects, Clothing, and Dog).
Example:
Every pay period I transfer half of the cable bill, gas/electric bill and cell
phone bill to the Utilities account; half of the mortgage to the Mortgage
account; half of the clothing budget to the Clothing account; etc.
After years of budgeting this way, I felt validated when I came across a well-respected
financial guru who also budgeted this way. I was glad to see I wasn’t the only nut job...I mean...
person who felt this was a great way to budget.
As long as you are disciplined, you are guaranteed to always have money
for your bills at the end of the month.
Living more frugally doesn’t mean living without. It means finding little things to do differently
that can make a big difference in saving you money.
Things you can do to start living more frugally:
§ Stop
buying coffee and make your own
§ Brown
bag your lunch
§ Do
not use ATM’s outside of your bank’s network
§ Couponing
§ Drive
cars until they die, When the car does die, buy a used car instead of a new car
§ Create
a weekly menu and shop to it
§ Borrow
books from the library instead of buying
§ If
you carry credit cards, do not carry a balance
§ Increase
the deductibles on your insurance policies
Save a small emergency fund
When an emergency happens you have need a reserve to go to. Having a reserve will help
prevent you from going into more debt. How much this emergency fund
should be varies among whom you ask. Some experts believe $1000 is
enough; others believe $2000 is appropriate. I tend to lean toward $2000
because it creates a little more comfort room. We actually had our washer, dryer and dishwasher go in a 6 week period. Having more than $1000 in our emergency fund was huge. Yes, it takes longer to
save $2000 but some, like us, need the security this provides. As you become more
comfortable and you feel the $1000 is security enough, you can apply the extra
$1000 to the debt you are currently working on.
You will have an
emergency and you will need cash to pay for it.
Payoff debt
- Snowball (See Get Out of Debt Page)
Emergency fund part 2
After you have paid off all of your debt, except the house, you'll start saving a true emergency fund. If you were to lose your job, you’d want 3-6 months of living expenses to
help you pay the bills until you find a new job. Should you save 3 months
or 6 months of expenses? If your position is fairly stable (government or
unionized employee) then you can lean towards the 3 month level.
Otherwise, I suggest saving as close to 6 months of expenses as you can.
Fund retirement
15% of your gross salary should be going towards your retirement. If your
company matches that match would go on top of the 15% you contribute.
Example:
If your annual gross salary is $45,000 a year, you should be saving $6,750 a year towards
your retirement. If your company matches up to 3% ($1,350), you should be
saving $6,750 + $1,350, or $8,100 a year.
Fund College Education
Once you are able to save 15% of your annual income for retirement it's time
to start thinking about saving for your children's college
education. Fidelity recommends the following percentages of income as a guideline (per child) for investment into your children's college savings accounts:
Household income Public Education Private Education
$55,000 3.5% 9%
$75,000 3% 6.5%
Household income Public Education Private Education
$55,000 3.5% 9%
$75,000 3% 6.5%
$100,000 3% 5.5%
> $150,000 2% 4%
> $150,000 2% 4%
Payoff house
Whatever you can afford after contributing to retirement and funding the
kid’s college, throw everything you can to pay off the house.
Save
Now you can build wealth!
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